know - - Part Two Part Three
Have you ever learned to really know someone? I am not someone to get to know superficially. But anyone in any situation . Learn To understand someone, just as he / she?
Many people enter into a relationship with someone with a superficial view. The partner or the partner is seen from one side to a very much. Man falls in love and come together. Only later, (unfortunately) do you find out that this person still has many pages that you have never even seen. And many times it is so that this leads to a confrontation that is not always good. Because in the worst case it may happen that the other person trying to make something, or reduce it to something that this person is actually not, or it was never or never wanted to be. This happy little story:
He rocker with leather jacket, Tatos, long hair, torn clothes. They have long hair, rocker bride lived ... The two fall in love and come together. They have a nice quality time together and live the dream of unbridled. They marry and live together now.
Then they developed into something else. She cuts her hair shorter cleanse a natural wave and now runs more often like to chic. Their language is changing to a form of communication as they circle that is often encountered. He still Rocker long hair, torn clothes and Tatos.
One day she spoke to him, whether he has not ever thought of replacing his leather jacket with a jacket? She even buys one that she likes. And after much back and forth, he decides to hang her sake, the dearly beloved leather jacket for ever at his heels. From now on, we see that one always dresses that appeal to his wife. He looks a bit awkward it from.
were Some time later, then the long hair. However, this was with him then a bit longer. What's not to say that his long hair is not cut through but still a brave tame was. And when he then also be jewelry, which was the majority of skulls and cross laid aside, actually, only the medical step was necessary wegzumachen his Tatos forever from his body.
Now you might think that they really should be satisfied. Far from it. After he had completed a course in etiquette and had occupied some public speaking training, she told him from day to day, that she did not love her anymore. Then she separated it from him. And, believe it or not, came together with a rocker, who wore a leather jacket, Tatos, long hair and torn clothes.
Now that's the story of your view. But what about the former rocker? He is in fine clothes pickup, speaks a language that he is from the ground up and has a body that has become foreign to him. He was the product of his ex-girlfriend. Not enough that they had to leave him, no, they took him even with all that it had identified. Leaving him to alienate himself, helplessly alone.
What I would say this story is, I think obvious. Decide You to change, but do it for yourself. You can convert from a rocker into a business one, do it but only if you want it.